How to spot players on dating sites
RELATED: Complaining just might be the secret to a happy relationship Ultimately, you may just have to stop engaging with this person.“If you feel like somebody is just throwing you crumbs, stop picking up the crumbs,” Gandhi said.So whether you are a rookie or a veteran, this guide to the three most dangerous types of men in the dating jungle will help you to safely navigate these treacherous waters to the harbor of true love.So dangerous and alluring, yet hard to catch and even harder to keep.It may be a guy that you’ve been flirting with back and forth, who will disappear for weeks, and then send an ambiguous “Hey, how’s it going? Or, it may be someone you went on a few dates with, who isn’t asking you out again, but will occasionally like one of your photos on Facebook or Instagram, or send you a message that has no significance, other than to pop back into your mind. Or, the guy may just want to keep all of his options open, Gandhi added. These traits can be telltale signs However, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, author of "Why He Disappeared," also challenged daters to put themselves in the other person’s shoes — it’s likely, he told TODAY, that daters have themselves unintentionally led someone on in a similar manner. The man could be talking to multiple women, or secretly in love with an ex, or had a hard week at work.The man’s actions, he said, are more selfish than calculating — he’s not considering the consequences of his confusing actions, just as women might not consider the consequences of reaching out to catch up with an ex.And don’t worry about being too picky — you have to be picky when it comes to things like consistency, reliability and kindness, Gandhi said.If someone doesn’t live up to your standards, cut them loose.
After the essential ability to say no, being able to identify and defend yourself from the bad actors out there is the next critical skill single women need.
However, the more serious problem is with the part of their nature.
Namely they are still immature, allergic to hard work and responsibility.
We all know them when we see them, but they still attract women in like moths to a flame.
You could write a book on why bad boys are so seductive, but you can’t avoid being attracted; you can only resist their charms.
